Where can you start looking for this thing called respite care? Well, for one thing, you should talk to your doctor.. They will probably know of programs that you can join that will help pay for the care. There are state programs that will help. Other health professionals, like therapists, may be able to help point you in the right direction as well..

You might be able to find this same information online. Look up “respite care” and your particular state. You are going to have to jump through all of their hoops, which can take a while.

In the meantime, try to find friends and family that will be to help with your special needs child. Your mother might be able to take him for a day once a month. Your husband might be able to take him one evening a week. Your friend might be able to take him for another day.